`distutils` is removed from Python 3.12 and usage with `setuptools` is deprecated

[Avasam]

See:

• https://setuptools.pypa.io/en/latest/deprecated/distutils-legacy.html#prefer-setuptools
• https://peps.python.org/pep-0632/#migration-advice
• Making setuptools the reference implementation of the distutils API pypa/packaging-problems#127
• Deprecate SETUPTOOLS_USE_DISTUTILS=stdlib pypa/setuptools#3625
• Deprecate usage of import distutils except internal to Setuptools pypa/setuptools#3622
• Deprecate distutils_hack and support for 'import distutils' before 'import setuptools' pypa/setuptools#4137
• https://docs.python.org/3.11/distutils/

  The entire distutils package has been deprecated and will be removed in Python 3.12

• https://docs.python.org/3.12/distutils/ (empty page, now lives at https://setuptools.pypa.io/en/latest/deprecated/distutils/ )

Since pywin32 already imports setuptools, the module will still be found with Python 3.12, but falls in the "deprecated" category.

[Avasam]

Exe installers support will need to be dropped to completely stop using distutils directly. See #1939

[dougransom]

Be nice to have a pyroject.toml