Reduce Python and Nuget GPU package size (#26002)

### Description
The package size limit for PyPI and Nuget are:
- python package size under 300MB
- Nuget package size under 250MB

To meet the size limit, 
this PR firstly removes some old GPU arch support in
CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURE.
Secondly, it removes the FPA_INTB_GEMM support in Linux Python wheel.


#### Python wheel


| OS | cmake_cuda_architecture | CUDA kernel removal |Package size |
Under 300MB|

|---------|--------------------------------------------------------|-|-------------|---|
| Linux | 60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;86-real;90a-real;90a-virtual |
|341 MB |No (original)|
| Linux | 70-real;75-real;80-real;86-real;90a-real;90a-virtual | | 329
MB |No|
| Linux | 75-real;80-real;86-real;90a-real;90a-virtual | |319 MB |No|
| Linux   | 80-real;86-real;90a-real;90a-virtual   | |304 MB       |No|
| Linux | 60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;86-real;90a-real;90a-virtual.
| FPA_INTB_GEMM|287 MB |Yes|
| Windows | 52-real;61-real;75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual | | 272
MB |Yes (original)|

#### Nuget


| OS | cmake_cuda_architecture | CUDA kernel removal |Package size
|Under 250MB|

|---------|--------------------------------------------------------|---|--------------|---|
| Linux | 60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;90a-real;90a-virtual | |276 MB
|No (original)|
| Linux   | 75-real;80-real;90a-real;90a-virtual   | |253 MB       |No|
| Linux | 60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;90a-real;90a-virtual
|FPA_INTB_GEMM| 230 MB |Yes|
| Windows | 52-real;61-real;75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual || 264
MB |No (original)|
| Windows | 61-real;75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual || 254 MB |No|
| Windows | 75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual    || 242 MB       |Yes|


### Motivation and Context
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Author: chilo-ms

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/stages/nuget-win-cuda-packaging-stage.yml

@@ -60,7 +60,7 @@ stages:
     msbuildPlatform: x64
     packageName: x64-cuda
     CudaVersion: ${{ parameters.CudaVersion }}
-    buildparameter: --use_cuda --cuda_home=${{ parameters.win_cuda_home }} --enable_onnx_tests --enable_wcos --cmake_extra_defines "CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=52-real;61-real;75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual"
+    buildparameter: --use_cuda --cuda_home=${{ parameters.win_cuda_home }} --enable_onnx_tests --enable_wcos --cmake_extra_defines "CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual"
     runTests: ${{ parameters.RunOnnxRuntimeTests }}
     buildJava: ${{ parameters.buildJava }}
     java_artifact_id: onnxruntime_gpu
@@ -80,7 +80,7 @@ stages:
     msbuildPlatform: x64
     CudaVersion: ${{ parameters.CudaVersion }}
     packageName: x64-tensorrt
-    buildparameter: --use_tensorrt --tensorrt_home=${{ parameters.win_trt_home }} --cuda_home=${{ parameters.win_cuda_home }}  --enable_onnx_tests --enable_wcos --cmake_extra_defines "CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=52-real;61-real;75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual"
+    buildparameter: --use_tensorrt --tensorrt_home=${{ parameters.win_trt_home }} --cuda_home=${{ parameters.win_cuda_home }}  --enable_onnx_tests --enable_wcos --cmake_extra_defines "CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=75-real;86-real;89-real;90a-virtual"
     runTests: ${{ parameters.RunOnnxRuntimeTests }}
     buildJava: ${{ parameters.buildJava }}
     java_artifact_id: onnxruntime_gpu

tools/ci_build/github/linux/build_cuda_c_api_package.sh

@@ -2,4 +2,4 @@
 set -e -x
 docker run -e SYSTEM_COLLECTIONURI --rm --volume \
 $BUILD_SOURCESDIRECTORY:/onnxruntime_src --volume $BUILD_BINARIESDIRECTORY:/build -e NIGHTLY_BUILD onnxruntimecuda${CUDA_VERSION_MAJOR}build \
-/bin/bash -c "/usr/bin/python3 /onnxruntime_src/tools/ci_build/build.py --enable_lto --build_java --build_nodejs --build_dir /build --config Release --skip_submodule_sync  --parallel --use_binskim_compliant_compile_flags --build_shared_lib --use_cuda --cuda_version=$CUDA_VERSION --cuda_home=/usr/local/cuda-$CUDA_VERSION --cudnn_home=/usr/local/cuda-$CUDA_VERSION --skip_tests --use_vcpkg --use_vcpkg_ms_internal_asset_cache --cmake_extra_defines 'CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;90a-real;90a-virtual' && cd /build/Release && make install DESTDIR=/build/installed"
+/bin/bash -c "/usr/bin/python3 /onnxruntime_src/tools/ci_build/build.py --enable_lto --build_java --build_nodejs --build_dir /build --config Release --skip_submodule_sync  --parallel --use_binskim_compliant_compile_flags --build_shared_lib --use_cuda --cuda_version=$CUDA_VERSION --cuda_home=/usr/local/cuda-$CUDA_VERSION --cudnn_home=/usr/local/cuda-$CUDA_VERSION --skip_tests --use_vcpkg --use_vcpkg_ms_internal_asset_cache --cmake_extra_defines 'CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;90a-real;90a-virtual' 'onnxruntime_USE_FPA_INTB_GEMM=OFF' && cd /build/Release && make install DESTDIR=/build/installed"

tools/ci_build/github/linux/build_linux_python_package.sh

@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@ fi
 if [ "$BUILD_DEVICE" == "GPU" ]; then
     SHORT_CUDA_VERSION=$(echo $CUDA_VERSION | sed   's/\([[:digit:]]\+\.[[:digit:]]\+\)\.[[:digit:]]\+/\1/')
     #Enable CUDA and TRT EPs.
-    BUILD_ARGS+=("--use_cuda" "--use_tensorrt" "--cuda_version=$SHORT_CUDA_VERSION" "--tensorrt_home=/usr" "--cuda_home=/usr/local/cuda-$SHORT_CUDA_VERSION" "--cudnn_home=/usr/local/cuda-$SHORT_CUDA_VERSION" "--nvcc_threads=1" "--cmake_extra_defines" "CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;86-real;90a-real;90a-virtual")
+    BUILD_ARGS+=("--use_cuda" "--use_tensorrt" "--cuda_version=$SHORT_CUDA_VERSION" "--tensorrt_home=/usr" "--cuda_home=/usr/local/cuda-$SHORT_CUDA_VERSION" "--cudnn_home=/usr/local/cuda-$SHORT_CUDA_VERSION" "--nvcc_threads=1" "--cmake_extra_defines" "CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;86-real;90a-real;90a-virtual" "onnxruntime_USE_FPA_INTB_GEMM=OFF")
 fi
 
 if [ "$BUILD_DEVICE" == "NPU" ]; then

tools/ci_build/github/linux/build_tensorrt_c_api_package.sh

@@ -3,4 +3,4 @@ set -e -x
 mkdir -p $HOME/.onnx
 docker run -e SYSTEM_COLLECTIONURI --rm --volume /data/onnx:/data/onnx:ro --volume $BUILD_SOURCESDIRECTORY:/onnxruntime_src --volume $BUILD_BINARIESDIRECTORY:/build \
 --volume /data/models:/build/models:ro --volume $HOME/.onnx:/home/onnxruntimedev/.onnx -e NIGHTLY_BUILD onnxruntimecuda${CUDA_VERSION_MAJOR}xtrt86build \
-/bin/bash -c "/usr/bin/python3 /onnxruntime_src/tools/ci_build/build.py --build_dir /build --config Release --skip_tests --skip_submodule_sync --parallel --use_binskim_compliant_compile_flags --build_shared_lib --build_java --build_nodejs --use_tensorrt --cuda_version=$CUDA_VERSION --cuda_home=/usr/local/cuda-$CUDA_VERSION --cudnn_home=/usr --tensorrt_home=/usr --cmake_extra_defines 'CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;90a-real;90a-virtual' --use_vcpkg --use_vcpkg_ms_internal_asset_cache && cd /build/Release && make install DESTDIR=/build/installed"
+/bin/bash -c "/usr/bin/python3 /onnxruntime_src/tools/ci_build/build.py --build_dir /build --config Release --skip_tests --skip_submodule_sync --parallel --use_binskim_compliant_compile_flags --build_shared_lib --build_java --build_nodejs --use_tensorrt --cuda_version=$CUDA_VERSION --cuda_home=/usr/local/cuda-$CUDA_VERSION --cudnn_home=/usr --tensorrt_home=/usr --cmake_extra_defines 'CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=60-real;70-real;75-real;80-real;90a-real;90a-virtual' 'onnxruntime_USE_FPA_INTB_GEMM=OFF' --use_vcpkg --use_vcpkg_ms_internal_asset_cache && cd /build/Release && make install DESTDIR=/build/installed"