Only load previous converstaion from db when --resume is passed

[kkashilk]

Optimize conversation loading behavior

Restructured the conversation loading logic to avoid unnecessary database queries on every chat session start

1. Improves performance by eliminating redundant database lookups when resuming isn't needed
2. Fixes an issue with checkpoint feature, when starting multiple conversations from the same directory

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