chore: update to `iroh` v0.35 #324

Job	Run time
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-freebsd)	50s
check_semver	1m 32s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, all, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	2m 16s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, all)	2m 23s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, default)	1m 28s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, default, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	2m 17s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, none)	1m 1s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, none)	59s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, all)	1m 35s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, none, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	1s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, default)	1m 37s
clippy_check	1m 45s
Checking fmt	19s
Cross Test (i686-unknown-linux-gnu)	1m 29s
codespell	6s
Checking docs	1m 22s
cargo deny	33s
Android Build Only (aarch64-linux-android)	1m 13s
Android Build Only (armv7-linux-androideabi)	1m 11s
Minimal Supported Rust Version	1m 29s
	25m 26s

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